Grad School Analysis Paralysis

I was never overly concerned about how practical my degree is and how much money I can make from it. I have friends who studied Nursing and Engineering because they believe (but mostly their parents believe) that those careers would fulfill their financial and material needs in the future. They’re not wrong, but I also observed how some of them were such bad fits for those fields. I believe people who have intelligence, discipline, a good attitude, and grit will indubitably achieve success no matter what they do. Am I too optimistic? Maybe, but no one can change my mind.

Don't Like Your Friend's Content? Mute, Don't Unfollow.

If you dislike a friend’s content on Instagram, would you unfollow them OR mute them? For the sake of clarity, I will differentiate the two.Unfollowing someone means all their content will be removed from your feed and you will be subtracted from their follower count.Muting someone is similar to unfollowing in the sense that you …

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Thin is Beautiful, My Cognitive Distortion

What is your cognitive distortion? For me, it’s that I have to be thin to be beautiful. I’m at the heaviest I’ve been in my whole life. Last night, I weighed myself and was surprised to see that I gained a few pounds. Despite walking thousands of steps everyday and practicing yoga religiously, I was …

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My Uncensored Feelings about Cleaning

Does anyone here get major anxiety from cleaning or the thought of cleaning? I’d like to come out and express my disdain for it. It’s genuinely the thing I hate most about adulting, and I am certain that I am not the only one. Before I moved out, I considered cleaning a somewhat pleasurable activity. …

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